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First dates can be awkward but a great lot of fun. We believe that is the main secret. Make sure you are going to be doing something fun and enjoyable on your first date. (If you don't hit it off, at least you will be doing something you enjoy to pass the time)
- Dress appropriately. Find out in advance where you will be going etc and dress accordingly.
- Don't talk about yourself too much. Let your date talk as well, and let the conversation flow.
- A good length first date is about 2 hours or so. If after 20-30 minutes things are just not going well, or conversation comes to a stand-still, make your excuses and leave.
- Everyone ends up being stood up at one time or another. Don't let it put you off trying again. Put it behind you and start your search for someone else.
- Be yourself. Show all of your genuine, good qualities.
- Always be honest. You never know how things will go after this date. This could be a long term relationship in the making, so exaggerating your job, income, home, etc, will not be a good start. Your new partner will find out the truth eventually, and you could have ruined a great relationship before it starts.
- Do not drink too much. Limit yourself to two or three drinks.
- Do not wear too much perfume or aftershave. You don't want to look too desperate, plus your date may have allergies.
- Listen to your date, and be sure to make eye contact.
Show you are interested.
- Do not expect anything in return for the date. A mutual kiss is nice, but shouldn't be expected, let alone anything more.
- Do not ogle other people. You will impress no-one.
- Do not mention your previous partner.
- Be confindent, friendly and happy.
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